When it is necessary, the widow changes, accepting change is part of her grief process, not ignoring or battling it. She can focus on balance and improvement without sacrificing her personal memories.
A smart widow knows that the age of the lone-wolf widow has passed. She doesn’t have to do it all alone with a stiff upper lip. She can depend on other widows or counselors and yet still be independent.
Widows need to constantly learn how to find their balance and make a new life for themselves. That balance does not come easy and they must rid themselves of past regrets while still concentrating on the present.
A widow that can change knows that life is unfair, that problems arise, but she can take obstacles while still keeping her sense of humor. She is grounded with the ability to perceive the positive side of things – recognizing the unfairness of life but never dwelling on it.
Armed with the right knowledge a widow can receive peace and love back into her life. If you can see a happy future, you can make it happen. Widows that accept change do more than read books and attend counseling – they take action. To do this, they go with their own flow, possessing the sensitivity to know what they can accomplish, why they are here and what is realistic for them.
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